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There's no power in anger

Anger is one of the easiest ways to channel any other emotion into.

Heartbreak, betrayal or any negative emotion for that matter, it's way easier to just stay angry rather than deal with it. 

It might make you feel better for sometime but not in the longer term. 

Plus on the downside, you get health issues that you didn't ask for - headaches, anxiety, high blood pressure etc.

It's healthier to go through the emotion and be done with it than be angry for years and lose your peace. 

I hear ya, easier said than done but it is much better if you see the effect of it years down the road. 

There is no power in anger! 

The only person that it makes miserable is YOU! 

There's also a time-tested proverb in Tamil that goes,

"ஆத்திரக் காரனுக்கு புத்திமட்டு" 
that translates to anger does not let a man think straight. 

You tend to make rash decisions when you are angry. 

The bottom line is that anger never did anyone any good. NEVER! 

Try not to hold on to it, even if not for the sake of taking the high road but for your peace of mind.



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  1. Daft deviantMarch 11, 2024 at 9:34 PM

    Anger can be used as a weapon if one learns to control it. But if one fails, then it ends up controlling them.

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